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LauraH
DAFNE Graduate
NHS Grampian 6 posts |
Hi All, |
novorapidboi26
DAFNE Graduate
NHS Lanarkshire 1,819 posts |
I watched it and it has been discussed extensively on the Diabetes UK support forum with some positive and negative opinions... |
sarahj
Betsi Cadwaladr University Health Board 1 post |
hi im a type 1 and have been for 24 yrs, i did feel quite negatitve after watching it, i thought it was educational for those who dont have good control, hopefully to push them in the right direction. i completely agree with type 1 and type 2, they need to make it clear that type 1's are not associated with being obese!!! |
Simon
Site Administrator
Sheffield Teaching Hospitals 578 posts |
Yep I just gave this a watch on 4OD, after seeing this topic and also being in the 15-25 age bracket (for another few months at least...) I was interested. |
Lizzie
DAFNE Graduate
Guy's and St Thomas' Hospital 87 posts |
Simon, I don't think a 'kick up the backside' is what people need. I went through a bad period that lasted years and I do blame the doctors for that. They put me on MDI without telling me how to adjust my insulin. The emphasis was all on restricting food as if I was still on 2 injections of mixed insulin. My HBA1C must have been through the roof but they never mentioned it, or my obviously faked blood sugar results in my diary. They booted me out at 15 as my working parents could not take me to the clinic and missed some appointments. There was no continuity of care they just dumped me. I got myself referred to adult clinic but it was so miserable with no support I stopped going and did not see a dr for years. Sadly I do not think my experience is unique. Doctors are appalling at dealing with teenagers or diabetics in general. They expect you to be a machine and if you are human and make mistakes they have not a clue how to support you. They neglect to tell you vital information about how to deal with hypos, adjust insulin...the list goes on. They are happy to just see you once a year and leave you to struggle in between appointments. Teenage years are hard enough for people, for diabetics they are even worse. We need support not criticism. In fact, all the scare tactics people used made me worse - they scared me rigid so I could not even think about my diabetes and avoided testing so I did not see the high results. If I was high I did not know what to do about it due to the doctors not telling me, so I did not bother testing. I think that at least for some of these teenagers their fierce bravado might hide terrible fear and the doctors showing them images or telling them about amputations or blind people and how irresponsible they are just makes that worse, makes them more resistant and obstinate, more terrified to face their condition. Not everyone is irresponsible. Doctors are neglecting their duty of care to find out the real reasons why teens do not check their blood sugar or manage their condition. Blaming the teenagers is lazy and despicable in the part of the doctors in my opinion. |
Simon Heller
DAFNE HCP
Sheffield Teaching Hospitals 46 posts |
Hi Lizzie. I am straying a little from the 'questions for health care professionals' forums in posting on this thread but I think you are being a little hard on medical staff here and hope we have learnt a bit a bit over the years. Those of us who run clinics for young people can see very clearly how tough it is to manage diabetes on top of coping with being a teenager. |
Lizzie
DAFNE Graduate
Guy's and St Thomas' Hospital 87 posts |
Maybe I was a little harsh Simon. I am sure somewhere out there there are doctors who are kind and supportive. But I have not met any and can only speak for my own experiences. Maybe I have been unlucky. I wish I could find a doctor or medical professional who actually cared. I try to be hopeful when I go for appointments but each one just ticks the boxes and gets me out the door again. The last one did not even check my feet or ask to see my diary. He was more interested in pressuring me to have weight loss surgery. This seems to be the favoured solution for my doctors rather than asking about my mental wellbeing and trying to deal with all my many and varied issues involving food, diabetes, and my father's death when I was 18 months old, which have plagued me all my life. Instead of doing what I think is their job and investigating the actual reason why I am struggling with diet and exercise, they would rather I had my stomach removed. Nice, eh? |
Simon Heller
DAFNE HCP
Sheffield Teaching Hospitals 46 posts |
Yes, your experiences aren't encouraging but I do know docs/diabetes teams in London who have a very different attitude and who were instrumental in developing DAFNE with us. Just as it has been a big struggle to persuade diabetes teams that DAFNE is essential to promoting better diabetes care, we all have a lot to learn about the right way to support young people who would rather not have diabetes. |
marke
Site Administrator
South East Kent PCT 675 posts |
I know I'm bound to say this since I'm lucky enough to be involved with the DAFNE Management team and have been to the collaboratives and met a number of the HCP's, but there ARE a lot of good and very dedicated medical people out there who work very hard. I'm also very lucky to have a brilliant Diabetes consultant who always has as much time for me as I need and never rushes our consultations. Sure his clinics ALWAYS run late, but you happily accept that because you know you will probably run over your slot. I have on occasion seen newer, younger consultants and one or two have had a lot to learn in terms of patient relationships. I guess thats something they learn with experience and maybe Lizzies consultants still have this road to walk. I'm not clear though Lizzie if you see a GP or a hospital when you talk of 'doctors'. I do find that GP's are no where near as good. They just don't understand the deep details like someone who works in Diabetes full time. I know locally to me the PCT is trying to push Type 1 and 2's into the GP's care which is NOT a good thing. |
Lizzie
DAFNE Graduate
Guy's and St Thomas' Hospital 87 posts |
Hi again Marke |